Hard Love

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I remember growing up loved like it was only yesterday
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Mum and daddy tried their best to guide me on my way
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But the hard times and the liqour drove easy love away
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And the only love I knew about was hard love


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It was hard love every hour of the day
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When Christmas to my birthday was a million years away
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And the fear that came between them drove the tears into my play
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There was love in daddy's house but it was hard love


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I recall the gentle courtesy you showed me as I tried
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To dissemble in politeness all the love I felt inside
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But for every song of laughter there was another song that cried
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This ain't no easy weekend this is hard love


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It was hard love every step of the way
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It was hard to be so close to you and hard to turn away
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But when all the stars in the sentimental songs dissolve away
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There'll be nothing left to sing about but hard love


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So I'll love you for your courage and your gentle sense of shame
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And I'll love you for your laughter and your language and your name
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And I knew it was impossible but I loved you just the same
            G                           C
Though the only love I gave to you was hard love


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It was hard love it was so hard on you I know
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When the only love I gave to you was love I couldn't show
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You forgave the heart that loved you as your lover turned to go
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Leaving nothing but the memory of hard love


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So I'm standing in this phone booth with a dollar and a dime
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And I'm wondering what to say to you to ease your troubled mind
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For the Lord's cross might redeem us but our own just waste our time
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But to tell the two apart there's always hard love


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So I'll tell you that I love you even though you're far away
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And I'll tell you how you changed me as I lived from day to day
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And how you helped me to accept myself and I won't forget to say
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That love is never wasted even when it's hard love


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Oh it's hard love but it's love all the same
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It's not the stuff of fantasy much more than just a game
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And it's the only kind of miracle that is worthy of the name
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For the love that heals our lives is mostly hard love